
In 2013, the novelist Jonathan Safran Foer gave the commencement address at Middlebury College. He subsequently adapted parts of it into a short but impactful essay published in the New York Times. It was titled: “How Not to Be Alone.”
In this piece, Foer explores the evolution of communication technology, writing:
“Most of our communication technologies began as diminished substitutes for an impossible activity. We couldn’t always see one another face to face, so the telephone made it possible to keep in touch at a distance. One is not always home, so the answering machine made a kind of interaction possible without the person being near his phone.”
From the answering machine we got to email, which was even easier, and then texting, which, being less formal and more mobile, was even easier still.
“But then a funny thing happened,” Foer writes, “we began to prefer the diminished substitute.”
This made life convenient, but introduced its own costs: